Why you should stop apologizing for being the way you are

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Do not apologize for being who you are. You are perfect and unique as you are.

Do not apologize for showing your feelings. Don’t be ashamed of being who you really are

Why do you apologize for being you? If you are with people who are not willing to accept you for who you are, it is their problem, not yours.

Never let another person make you question the essence of your identity. Do not let them make you feel bad for thinking or acting in a certain way, it is not to them that you owe loyalty. You owe it to yourself.

Make yourself a priority once in a while. It is not selfishness, it is self-care

This is the only life you are going to live, so don’t waste it trying to please everyone. The truth is that not everyone will like it and some people will try to make you feel bad about it. There is only one you in this world, do not change to become one more. You are unique in your kind, and that’s great.

Why would you want to become one more? You are milk as you are. So. Neither higher nor lower. Neither screamer nor calmer. Neither more daring nor more shameful. So how are you? Just as you are right now.

Do not regret the past, it is a waste of time. There is a reason for everything. Every mistake you’ve made, every weakness, every terrible thing you’ve done. It grows from her. The only way to get respect from others is when you show them that you respect yourself. So never apologize for being you.

The way you treat yourself is the way you teach others to treat you

What makes you great is not what others think you are. What makes you great is knowing who you are, being proud of it, and changing everything you know you can improve. But not because nobody told you but because it is born of you. A better person as a way of life, and not as an obligation that others impose on you.

That is why you must embrace everything strange and special that you are, because once you stop doing so you will stop being you. And that’s when you start to stop loving who you are. And you can’t love anyone unless you love yourself first. And that is a great reason not to apologize for being who you are.